Parent dating again
I tried to be understanding, empathetic and compassionate towards everyone especially the kids.He still receives mail at the house as if she pays a bill. There were no boundaries, no consequences and no room for me.I felt like I was living in the shadows of a dead woman.
If I was a bit flip about it, it kept it more lighthearted.I kick myself now for looking at the cards and reading them.He calls me sexy and have always felt very special when he does….It just seemed like it would be unfair to the man and just too gossipy. I mean, as you both pointed out, you don't get married with the idea that you're going to lose the person who you've loved and pledged to love.I mean, that's generally not the way people kind of go about things. I joined a support group early on, and a lot of the other women were sort of dealing with the same feelings about moving forward and meeting new men.
After being divorced for many years I was ready to on such a level where I thought this was the man I would spend the second part of my life with.